5 Steps to a Courthouse Marriage
Just follow a few guidelines to make the process easy
By Lynette DiPalma
Some couples prefer to avoid the pomp, pageantry and planning of a church wedding and others are in a bit of a hurry to take their vows. Whatever your reasons for choosing a courthouse marriage, you'll be relieved to learn it's generally a quick and painless process. All you need to do is take the appropriate steps in the right order.
- What You Need to Know
- In most states both the bride and the groom must be present to provide legal identification and documents, but some states will allow you to mail in the forms.
- The number of documents you need to submit depends upon your individual situation (such as the number of times either the bride or groom has been married previously) and state requirements (such as a blood test, waiting period, parental notification).
Read the mandatory literature or attend the mandatory marriage education classes if your state requires them. Many states require that each couple read through a family law handbook and some are now requiring a pre-marriage course to help battle the high rates of divorce. The clerk at the marriage license department will be able to provide you with more information.
Pay the fees. Every state requires an administrative fee for the license and an additional fee for a courthouse ceremony.
Locate witnesses. The number of witnesses will vary by state, but most states require at least one. These may be friends or relatives or you can just ask one of the couples waiting at the courthouse with you. Some couple have a good friend go along with them to the courthouse.
Solemnize your marriage in front of the witnesses and the officiant. Just having a license doesn't mean you're married. All states require that a "statement of intent" be provided in front of witnesses. This is the "I do" part of the wedding, though "I will" or a simple "yes" may suffice.
Authenticate the marriage by sending in the signed wedding license after the ceremony. Most states also require that the signatures be notarized, but most justice of the peace officiants can do this at the same time they sign the document.
About the Author
Lynette DiPalma is a freelance writer in the weddings field who co-owns a small wedding services business and has officiated at weddings.
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